OMG! I had to share these words with you today

...All you have to do is show up everyday
Stay true to your path
And you will surely find the treasure you seek
- Jackson Kiddard, author

Quick Pics of my week

The Shrine in Downtown LA 

The library 

inspired by the mood and elegance captured in this photo

Naomi Campbell and all her glory

the fabric and detail 

there's something about books that makes me excited

i bought this book for $1 at the library

outside the library feels like a jungle sometimes

this Andy Warhol painting left me speechless

I look for inspiration in the little details

I love walking the streets of  LA, you never know what you might see

makes me want to sit and read in elegance


Peter Pilotto designs are so colorful and cheerful


Soulnic House Music Picnic Saturday at Griffith Park was  a blast. If you haven't already please check out this video styled, shot and edited by me.

Eating " Shrimp Papaya Green Bean Salad

broiled shrimp, shredded green papaya, green, green beans and side of brocoli

Styling: Vintage Dress, Italian Handbag & Camilla Skov Heels

Sunday's uniform at the Los Angeles County Museum, Vintage, Italian handbag and Camilla Skovsgard heels






I made this video just for fun, click on link and tell me what you think. http://www.malaikapaul.com/p/malaikable-video.html

Eating " Salmon, Capers Collard Green Wrap

salmon baked, tomatoes, red onions, capers and olives wrapped in raw collard green

To give pleasure is to know pleasure! What do you do to Love yourself?

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve Your Love and affection"-Buddha

Once I watched a movie about how courtesans in Venice Italy became more educated and desired by men of the royal court . One in particular couldn't marry the man she loved because of her family's status.  The only way she could have him is to become a courtesan.

Her mother taught her "to give pleasure, you must know pleasure." So she showed her how to pamper herself, educate herself in the arts, music, literature and enjoy all the finer things in life.  So when the men of high social standing appeared.... well you have to watched to the movie to see what happens next. HA!

I will tell you this beautiful courtesan persuaded the French King to send his troops to support the Italians army at war.

By no means am I suggesting you become a high class prostitute.  But I will tell you "to give pleasure is to know pleasure" for some reason stuck with me.

And today I thought I want love. Do I know love? I think I do! But do I really know what it means to love someone unconditionally.  Then I thought ...Do I love myself unconditionally?  I know that sounds like a silly question. But I am my worst critic.  I get in my own way of happiness.

My childhood wasn't filled with I love yous and I miss yous. Quiet as kept, when my friends tells me they love me, I feel uncomfortable. Why? you asked? That's a great question.  My only answer is I am not in daily practice of giving and receiving love. I've probably been single longer than I've been in a relationship. And that's by choice.

 Yeah it sounds weird to me too.  It's like anything else for me to get into the daily habit of practicing what I want. Yes that includes love.  So I start by loving myself.  By taking the time to give myself pleasure from taking long hot baths to washing my beautiful natural hair slowly and not rushing to comb out the conditioner. I take myself to quiet romantic dinners. I'd really like to go to the Opera but won't, thinking I'll wait for my prince charming to take me.

So today I wrote myself a love letter.  I designed the front with a tie dye dress and wrote on the back of the note a fashion quote that inspired me.  Then I stuffed the letter in an envelope addressed to myself.   I may mail it out tomorrow, I haven't decided.  I thought how can I expect my life's partner to do things I haven't done for myself.
What do you do to love yourself?





Quick Pics of my Week

View of the Hollywood Hills from the Grove when you take to stairs to your car
The many fancy decor doorways in downtown LA fashion District

The architecture downtown is tres jolie, when you walk down broadway just look up

so decorative inside this theatre

another rooftop day with friends midweek lounging and grilling

I grilled salmon, asparagus and bell peppers, mushrooms too but I ate them before I took pic

day 10 of my passion in action challenge

blending markers and colored pencil, need more practice

Rodeo Drive and Wilshire Blvd. beautiful entrance

Rodeo Drive, a girl needs some inspiration

2 Rodeo Drive



just arrived at the fabric store in westhollywood.  one of my favorite places to browse for trim



beautiful antique store

went to the Grove outdoor shopping place to walk around see the people

I went to the theatre to watch Snow white and the Huntsman. the Queen's costumes were manificent
One of my favorite costumes in the Snow white and Huntsman movie was the mesh metallic dress